HOUSTON โ€”ย Under a spread of flowers, in a closed silver casket at the front of a brick-facade church in Texasโ€™ most populous city, lay the former first lady, the wife and mother to presidents and governors and a force in her own right.

And on their way to see her were thousands of mourners โ€” celebrators, they might correct you โ€”ย young and old, liberal and conservative, many of the men in Houston Astros hats and many of the women in Barbara Bushโ€™s characteristic bright blue and pearls.

Bush, a sharp-tongued literacy advocate, frank political critic and national figure bold enough to cradle an infant AIDS patient in 1989 as the disease remained a national taboo, died Tuesday at 92. On Friday, many of her admirers gathered at a Houston church to say goodbye โ€”ย because, as 8-year-old Eva Factor put it, โ€œitโ€™s not every day that a first lady dies who lives in Houston.โ€

Bushโ€™s funeral will be held Saturday at St. Martinโ€™s Episcopal Church. But a public event there the day before drew thousands, with well-wishers queuing up patiently in the eaves of a nearby megachurch, then boarding a fleet of red, white and blue city buses and traveling otherwise blocked-off streets to bid the late first lady a final goodbye.

As they waited in the early afternoon chill and then waded through the security line, well-wishers remembered Bush for her frankness, her class and an earnestness and genuine spirit they said transcended partisanship.

For Kelly Ogansoy, Bushโ€™s spirit was her strength when her eldest daughter, Robin, died of leukemia as a child. Ogansoy, who lost her 6-year-old son in a car accident about a decade ago, said she admires Barbara Bushโ€™s resilience in the face of the tragedy that famously turned her hair prematurely white.

Ogansoy said she attends St. Martinโ€™s along with the Bushes, and she saw them not too long ago โ€”ย โ€œWe were chit-chatting about the military,โ€ she recalled.

Years before she lost her daughter, years before she became a first lady, Bush dropped out of Smith College to begin a 73-year marriage to George H.W. Bush, who she followed to military bases in Michigan, Maine and Virginia; to school in New Haven, Connecticut; to the White House; and to cities across Texas, including a home in Midland and half a house in Odessa that was also occupied by a brothel.ย 

But perhaps their closest-held Texas home was her last: Houston, where the couple spent years of their retirement dining at the sprawling cityโ€™s famous restaurants, attending plays at its Hobby Center for the Performing Arts and cheering on its baseball team. And Bush left her mark on the town, from the run-ins neighbors remember at Tanglewood Park, where she liked to walk her dogs, to her historic endorsement of former Houston Mayor Annise Parker, who would become the countryโ€™s first openly gay leader of a major city. At the city’s Barbara P. Bush Elementary School, students singย on Friday mornings, โ€œTo our school weโ€™ll always be true, Barbara Bush weโ€™re proud of you, proud of you.โ€

The couple is knit into the fabric of this city, and everyone gathered here Friday seemed to have a story of them to tell โ€” the woman who said โ€œIโ€™m not even of her political party, but I adore her,โ€ and the man who remembers waiting behind George H.W. Bush in line for a haircut at the Houstonian Hotel.

For Vicky Berger, it was a chance encounter on the grounds of the George H. W. Bush Presidential Library at Texas A&M University, a few years ago in the springtime, back when Barbara Bush could take her dogs outside to stroll without her walker.

โ€œI said, โ€˜Could I ever speak to you?โ€™โ€™โ€ Berger, 74, recalled, smiling. โ€œAnd then she came up and put her arm around me. I said โ€˜Iโ€™m so amazed to be in your presence.โ€™ And she said, โ€˜Weโ€™re happy you are here.โ€™โ€

The Bergersย โ€”ย whose 55-year marriage is creeping up on the Bushesโ€™ impressive 73-year tally โ€”ย say theyโ€™ve been to the presidential library dozens of times. (Vicky Bergerโ€™s favorite spot in that sprawling historical maze? โ€œHer part,โ€ of course). There was no question of whether they would come say goodbye.ย 

โ€œI said, โ€˜We have to be here,โ€™โ€ Berger said. โ€œโ€˜And we have to wear blue.โ€™โ€

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Emma Platoff was a reporter at the Tribune from 2017 to 2021, most recently covering the law and its intersection with politics. A graduate of Yale University, Emma is the former managing editor of the...